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honestly feel like everyday is going to be a down day for me and more often i'll have to "work" to actually not be resting.
Well yes and no.I suppose it all depends on what you call a "down day".Some may say that every day of our world tour has been a down day.We are traveling with a child so there is no way one can enjoy the experience and go fast.We sleep in every day and stay up as late as we want.We never seem to make it out before noon and sometimes not til two in the afternoon or later.
Even with endless time ,there still are limits or the day is gone before you have seen anything and after all the reason for traveling the world is to see sights and experience different lifestyles.Even at the slowest pace,one needs time to digest all the sights and experiences and as someone said take time for more laying in bed all day,pleasure reading,laundry,email,keeping up with the blog,working on photo albums,figuring out plans or maps or subway systems,time to meditate,talk to friends & family,handle investments and banking things etc etc etc.
I will give you an example.We are near a famous site in France and arrived here a few days ago at night.The first morning we woke up late made ourselves a leisurely breakfast,explored the campground which is in a pretty woods by a river,took nice long showers until we decided to hike about 1k to the famous site.We made a simple picnic to take along as that is what my child wanted to do.It was fabulous and then we wandered all about and ended up meeting some cool people and finding the most fabulous museum,ate dinner and slowly made our way back "home" just before dark and then watched some movies in bed.
That I would call an "on " day.We have been on off days the last two days since we just felt lazy ( we have seen a lot before coming here at a similar slow pace as above) and we found they had free wifi so we could have fun on the internet and call family on skype.It is good to just do nothing and its important I think even at a slow pace.Orangelad is right ,that slow travel and extended ,slow world tours are not like travel so much,but like living.Doing ordinary things in extraordinary places.
There is "work" to be done,especially on the more "on " days as one has to eat and have some kind of a plan and figure out how to get around and how to eat ( at a minimum) shower,go the bathroom etc.These things can be an adventure in themselves sometimes.We just spent 2 weeks in Paris and had a blast and lots of down days,but if one does not get the museum pass or long term metro pass things ,you waste a lot of money,so one has to plan a bit.Many things are only open certain days and times so that also means planning and adapting.So a city will probably be more intense than a beach area where the only thing to be done is lay on the beach,but most people want to see and do more than beaches.
I'm already doing some research now on my off days on our plans for next summer and fall.I know more now about our trip than before I started,one learns a lot as you go and it shifts and changes things.
I think "down day" and "work" are just relative terms that will vary amongst people.I see it as all "down days" and all "work" too to some extent.Time to replenish must take place daily,but some days and times one needs more for various reasons ,depending on the person ( or family or couple) and the tour.We find that after city days we want some mellow and after mellow stretches we are ready for more excitement.A trip like this has a natural pace to it and each traveler finds how that works for them and will lable it according to thier standards.
On a long tour one is dealing with constant change and cultural shock and that has an impact.Each person must find a way to feel nurtured thru the process so they can fully enjoy it all.People usually have a "recovery " period after a trip,so those on long sojourns need to take that "recovery" as they go.